Study: Happiness Good for the Heart

February 18th, 2010 .

A large study recently published links happiness to a healthy heart….. in this case its your physical heart in discussion. US researchers followed over 1700 people over 10 years, and discovered that anxious and depressed people were at highest risk of heart disease, and that the happiest people in the study were 22% less likely to develop a heart problem. Here’s a WebMD article discussing the study, and an MSNBC heart article here.

Essentially spending a few minutes each day truly relaxed and enjoying yourself is certainly good for your mental health and may improve your physical health as well.
- Dr Karina Davidson, Columbia University Medical Center

A happy heart is a healthy heart… so it just comes down to us making sure we bring more positivity into our daily lives. Not waiting for our 2 weeks of vacation, or retirement, but really making it a priority every day. Realize what brings you happiness and make sure you include some of that every day… and enjoy the benefits as your quality of life improves :-)

For me, Open Heart Meditation has been a wonderful technique to quickly, easily and joyfully remove whatever  negative emotions are burdening my heart and replace them with love. What brings joy to your lives?

Happy Birthday Mahatma Ghandi

October 2nd, 2009 .
Mahatma Gandhi

Mahatma Gandhi

Mahatma Ghandi (1869-1948) … politician, philosopher, spiritual leader…. a man renowned throughout history for his doctrine of nonviolent protest .. was born this day 140 years ago.

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind

Even now, as our own world is in the throes of massive change, as we continue to need to reevaluate our approches to conflict, his words carry truth for me.

I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent.

Mahatma means ‘Great Soul’,  a title not lightly given, that must be earned…. the impacts of this one man’s life still fundamentally shape the world today….

Be the change that you want to see in the world

So much truth in that simple statement…. all change starts with us. Do we have the strength of our own convictions?

Carbon Offsets: A Change in Perspective

July 14th, 2009 .

As more of us are now aware, there is a climate crisis occurring on our planet as a result of an over-abundance of carbon in our atmosphere…. in no small part caused by emissions such as carbon dioxide from our cars, power plants etc. Films like An Inconvenient Truth, or Home that I mentioned in my last post go into much more detail in outlining this global issue.

I just discovered this site: carbonfund.org, which provides really easy to use online calculators to help you calculate your carbon footprint, and offset it through a donation to them. They work with agencies to put your donation to work in off-setting the carbon you emitted through you actions, by planting trees or investing in renewable energy. A carbon offset represents a reduction in carbon dioxide (CO2) somewhere else, like a wind farm in Texas or a reforestation project in Nicaragua, to balance out the emissions you cannot reduce.

I put my cross-country flight into their carbon calculator….. and it was only about $8 to offset, didn’t seem like much…. but then I included radiative forcing, which includes the fact that impacts are more at higher altitude… it took it to $25! I’m not shocked at the numbers, just the real impacts that are hidden to my normal perspective…..

And then I took the opportunity to offset all of my car driving for the year…. only $27.  The crazy thing is that one trip in an airplane across the US was almost the same amount as all my driving for the whole year! Well, admittedly there’s a lot of miles in my flight, although still less than I drive in a year…. but because it only takes a matter of hours to fly, I never realized just how big my impact was!! Simply using my default measure of time, I completely underestimated my impact on the planet, and everyone on it….

I’m really grateful for this eye-opener on our true planetary impacts in daily life……. I really suggest checking the site out… and maybe taking a little corrective action now to help our beautiful planet get back on track :-)

HOME - A stunning visual portrayal of Earth

July 14th, 2009 .

Award-winning aerial photographer Yann Arthus-Bertrand and narrator Glenn Close take you on a spectacular voyage around the world in Home. Spanning 54 countries and 120 locations, this film captures the Earth’s most amazing landscapes, showcasing its incomparable beauty and acknowledging its vulnerability to change…. in a way that puts our world - and our place in it - into true perspective.

HOME - A stunning visual portrayal of Earth

“We are living in exceptional times. Scientists tell us that we have 10 years to change the way we live, avert the depletion of natural resources and the catastrophic evolution of the Earth’s climate. The stakes are high for us and our children. Everyone should take part in the effort, and HOME has been conceived to take a message of mobilization out to every human being. For this purpose, HOME needs to be free. A patron, the PPR Group, made this possible. EuropaCorp, the distributor, also pledged not to make any profit because Home is a non-profit film. HOME has been made for you : share it! And act for the planet.”
- Yann Arthus-Bertrand, GoodPlanet Fundation President

The real meaning of Peace

June 12th, 2009 .

There once was a king who offered a prize to the artist who would paint the best picture of peace. Many artists tried. The king looked at all the pictures. But there were only two he really liked, and he had to choose between them.

One picture was of a calm lake. The lake was a perfect mirror for peaceful towering mountains all around it. Overhead was a blue sky with fluffy white clouds. All who saw this picture thought that it was a perfect picture of peace.

The other picture had mountains, too. But these were rugged and bare. Above was an angry sky, from which rain fell and in which lightning played. Down the side of the mountain tumbled a foaming waterfall. This did not look peaceful at all.

But when the king looked closely, he saw behind the waterfall a tiny bush growing in a crack in the rock. In the bush a mother bird had built her nest. There, in the midst of the rush of angry water, sat the mother bird on her nest - in perfect peace.

Which picture do you think won the prize? The king chose the second picture. Do you know why?

“Because,” explained the king, “peace does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble, or hard work. Peace means to be in the midst of all those things and still be calm in your heart. That is the real meaning of peace.”

- Author Unknown

Bodhisattva in Metro … a laughing heart sharing Love

June 9th, 2009 .

Sometimes a laugh is just what we all need to help us let go!

Bodhisattva in Metro (YouTube clip)

After we have laughed hard we can usually notice a distinct lightness in our chest as well as our mood…. we often feel very light-hearted afterward, don’t we? Well, laughing is simply another form of letting go, that helps us to cleanse the negative emotions that are stuck in our heart. It is the same principle as smiling to your heart, but a little bit more intense!

I love the clip above, not only because it got me laughing…. and reminded me how theraputic that can be… but also the sweetness in the story of the Bodhisattva…. or as I prefer to see him, divine instrument. I hope you enjoy it too :-)

We are meant to be happy

May 1st, 2009 .

That has always been something we strive for in this life. In fact, if we look at the motivations behind our thoughts and actions—conscious and unconscious—they are all to get us closer to the feeling, or at least the idea, of happiness.

Some of us have long asked why we cannot hold on to happiness. For all of the scholarship and human insights across the centuries, nobody has found a complete and enduring answer. Perhaps because it has been too close to see…

The answer, the key, is our heart.

We have been told throughout our lives to “follow your heart.” This has been written in countless holy texts as well, across virtually all religions, since the very beginning. This is because our heart - even without us realizing it - feels the Love that comes from True Source, who loves us completely, and always wants the very best for us.

In opening and using our heart, we are blessed with lasting peace and happiness that we can feel—actually and really feel—in our daily lives. Our daily life is actually a manifestation of how strongly we are connected to our Creator, the True Source. Thus, an open heart is also the real key to our spiritual advancement in getting closer to True Source, the Source of Eternal Peace and True Joy.

Why is our heart the main connection to True Source? Why is our heart the center of beautiful feelings? Why is our heart, not our brain or other parts of us, the key?

Our heart is the key because our true self is within our heart. Our true self that is within our heart will continue to live on even after this lifetime has been completed. While our physical body is only a temporary “shell”—flesh and blood that will one day turn into dust—our relationship with True Source is eternal. We need True Source and True Source’s Love not only when we are alive on this earth, but forever and always.

As we are still in our physical body, our heart (not the physical heart but the spiritual heart – the center of our feeling) is where and how we remain connected to True Source.

With this connection, our heart communicates with True Source and receives True Source’s Blessings. In receiving True Source’s Blessings, we can feel so many beautiful things within our heart, including the feeling of lightness, calmness, peace, happiness, and joy beyond all things we have ever felt from our worldly experiences.

Being calm and joyful at every moment of our life may sound fantastic, even impossible. Now recognize that it is your brain making this judgment, imposing this false limitation. In this regard, you may have quite a bit of work to do in getting out of your own way. Our brain is so strong—we have spent so much of our life within our head—that it can overtake our heart at the beginning. However, our heart knows that peace, calmness, and happiness await us once we begin opening and using our heart. It is only a matter of opening it up to let True Source’s Blessing do the best for us.

How beautiful and exciting it is to consider that all these wonderful feelings are within us at all times. All we need to do is to open and use our heart to be able to feel and enjoy these wonderful Blessings.

May you open your heart to the Creator and use your heart to experience the peace, calmness, and happiness within.

- Irmansyah Effendi

You Heart Is Beautiful

April 30th, 2009 .

From Heavenletters is a sweetly poetic post about our amazing Hearts, that rings very true to me. Even though all of us are affected by the very emotional lives we lead here on Earth, it does not deny the fact that at the core of us…. the core of our hearts is a pure spark of Divine Love… forever perfect, and unblemishable. It may take a little time to let the Love clean the outer layers of our hearts of the emotional debris from our experiences…. but if we tune in, we can always feel the pure longing within us…. that pure Love.

HeavenLetters - Your Heart Is Beautiful

Master Cleanse…what? how? why?!!

April 24th, 2009 .

I’ve had a few comments about the Master Cleanse which I’ve been doing recently, so here’s a little more info on the topic. Caveat: I’m certainly no expert, this is just my opinion, consult with your doctor… yada yada yada…. please do take with a grain of salt…. lemon juice, maple syrup and cayenne pepper optional ;-)

The Master Cleanse (Master Cleanser/Lemonade Diet) has been around for over half a century, and is a simplified form a fasting that typically lasts for 10 days. You can google it and get a ton of pros, cons and marketing spiel on it…. including popular news on how Beyonce lost 20lbs on it for her role in Dreamgirls. Enjoy. I’ve done it several times myself and have been very pleased with the results, as have numerous friends. It isn’t for everyone though, I also know of many others who’ve tried it and dropped away in anywhere from half a day to 3 days… it does take a little commitment :-)

Why bother?
Face it, the world we live in isn’t exactly pristine anymore…. we are continually absorbing toxins through the food we eat, water we drink and the air we breathe. Even with a relatively healthy diet, including regular physical exercise, our bodies usually can’t keep up with all the clean-up…. and who among us is that disciplined anyway? Certainly not me, though I do try. So we end up storing the toxins inside us, that if not dealt with, that can eventually lead to ill health. That was the premise that Stanley Burroughs was using when he created it, with fasting as an approach to turn the tables and even cure physical disease.

Fasting as a means of healing has been around for thousands of years…. the Master Cleanse is just an easier way to do it than a water fast…. and you will have plenty of energy to maintain your normal life throughout it.

To put it bluntly, if your engine is clogged up, the car won’t run well… or even at all. So, periodically I like to go on a cleanse to give my body a chance to do the cleanup jobs it doesn’t get the time to do otherwise. That’s the beauty of this process, the healing comes not from what you put into your body, but in actually giving your body the chance to heal itself naturally. By lowering its digestive workload with such an easy liquid diet, our body can redirect that energy into healing itself. We have been truly gifted in our lives… our bodies, minds and hearts are capable of so much more than we give them credit for!

How to do it:
The Master Cleanse is very simple….for 10 days typically, although you can extend it to 40 days… you limit your diet exclusively to the special lemonade mixture:

  • 2 tablespoons of Grade B Maple Syrup*
  • 2 tablespoons of freshly squeezed lemon (or lime) juice [approx 1/2 lemon]
  • 1/10 teaspoon (a dash) of cayenne pepper
  • 8 oz of water (medium-hot preferred)

* Grade B is the darker maple syrup, with more minerals in it…. its important not to use the usual grade A maple syrup found with pancakes, as it will not sustain you.

To help yourself into it, eat lightly the day(s) before the cleanse, mainly fruits and veg, try to hydrate well… this will make the early transition days easier. The night before you start take anherbal laxative tea, and you can continue to take it daily throughout the cleanse to help with elimination. As you may have noticed, there isn’t much fiber in the diet, so you will face constipation otherwise! It is also recommended to do a salt water flush first thing every morning, to flush your intestines and get your day off to a clean start. This consists of 2 teaspoons of a decent brand of uniodized sea salt (I use a Celtic mineral sea salt) in a quart of warm water…. this will cleanse the entire digestive tract, removing the toxins that have been released already. I’ve noticed that if you keep drinking a few mugs of hot water shortly after taking the salt water, it really does help push the process along quicker and more thoroughly.

To make it easy, I usually prepare a big batch of the mix that will last me a couple of days at a time. Pour all of the lemon juice into a large enough measured water bottle (Nalgene etc.), then put about an equal measure of maple syrup in, then add cayenne pepper. Its a mix of art and science to get the measures right, but you’ll get familiar enough with the taste to recognize a good batch. Regardless of the precision of preparation, it is definitely easier to make a bigger batch that you can take around with you during the day, and just add water whenever you want to drink a cup.

It is recommended to drink 6-12 cups a day. I find that is plenty… I usually drink 10-12 initially, that may drop by half towards the end. You shouldn’t feel hungry on the cleanse, that isn’t the point at all, Your body should get all the energy it needs. I can’t help you with your craving for pizza though! ;-)

I also recommend starting this on the weekend, take the laxative tea the night before, and use those two days to get used to the flushes, and ride any emotional roller coasters that may come up. By day 3 you’ll be ready for work :-)

One last note… rinse your mouth with water after drinking the mix, I just drink plain water… as your teeth can get a little sensitive if you leave the sugary/acidic mix in there, its really meant for your insides! Some people even use a straw. And you’ll notice some whiteish build up on your tongue as your body releases there… quite normal, but an odd experience, so the toothbrush is your friend here. It will also help with your breath, as you will also be detoxing from your lungs, so nicer for other people that way! He he he :-)

What to expect:
In my experience, the first few days, as you are adjusting to the new diet and all kinds of toxins are being released from within you, you can have quite an emotional reaction. This is normal, and in this case is good, as you know those are just parts of you being cleansed and the junk is on its way out. You didn’t think that all those emotions you’ve been swimming in weren’t being stored somewhere within your being, did you? Hmmm….. ;-)

So, it isn’t always easy… but it does get easier once you cross the initial hump…. then I usually find myself with an abundance of energy, with relatively clearer mind and moods too. Also, throughout the cleanse, even though you are never physically hungry you will have to confront those parts of you that crave refined sugar, caffeine, etc. and yes, they do sometimes rise up in revolt! Those were some hard-earned addictions! He he he!!! The good news is that you are being uniquely supported by the diet, so that if you face them later, you will have a much better chance staying away once you are off the cleanse.

I find that doing the cleanse represents a great opportunity to break some bad eating habits we’ve picked up over time. By cleansing your physical body of the toxic residues, you have a clean(er) slate with which to face them on the other side…. it is only your mind you’ll have to contend with, your body will already be on your side…. and you’ll already have struck some substantial victories throughout the cleanse. I’ve had friends drop drinking coffee, and even shift to a completely raw diet after this, which was part of their initial intention in doing it. That said, old habits die hard…. and it can be very easy to rebound badly…. jumping straight back into the junk as soon as you’re off it, almost as a ‘reward’ for having finished your cleanse, and dropped the extra pounds. It is up to you to take responsibility for what you are putting inside your body after the cleanse. It is a mind game we’re playing here too…. :-)

There are many ways to care for ourselves, as we are definitely very complex beings…. for me this is just one tool that I use for a more holistic approach to my overall well being. I hope that this note helps you with yours :-)

Here’s a more extensive article on fasting and the Master Cleanse, from a decent site I’ve found on healthy living: Whole Body Detoxification